It seems that the older we get, the commandment, Love thy neighbor with all your heard, mind and soul gets harder and harder to practice.
One reason maybe because we are so wrapped up and busy with our own lives that we forget that the others around us matter as well. Being single and enjoying life makes me somehow forget that loving others is just as important as loving one's self.
Another reason might be because of our painful experiences. It has calloused me in a way and has jaded my idea of love and living.
I have to get past this and be the most loving person I can be.